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"At least I don't plaster on the makeup like a trollop, you (c-word)" - McCain to his wife

McCain is laugh riot. I had to look up trollop, that's how articulate he is.

http://rawstory.com/news/2008/McCain_temper_boiled_over_in_92_0407.html

Book: McCain temper boiled over in '92 tirade, called wife a 'cunt'
Nick Juliano
Published: Monday April 7, 2008

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John McCain's temper is well documented. He's called opponents and colleagues "shitheads," "assholes" and in at least one case "a fucking jerk."

But a new book on the presumptive Republican nominee will air perhaps the most shocking angry exchange to date.

The Real McCain by Cliff Schecter, which will arrive in bookstores next month, reports an angry exchange between McCain and his wife that happened in full view of aides and reporters during a 1992 campaign stop. An advance copy of the book was obtained by RAW STORY.

Three reporters from Arizona, on the condition of anonymity, also let me in on another incident involving McCain's intemperateness. In his 1992 Senate bid, McCain was joined on the campaign trail by his wife, Cindy, as well as campaign aide Doug Cole and consultant Wes Gullett. At one point, Cindy playfully twirled McCain's hair and said, "You're getting a little thin up there." McCain's face reddened, and he responded, "At least I don't plaster on the makeup like a trollop, you cunt." McCain's excuse was that it had been a long day. If elected president of the United States, McCain would have many long days.

The man who was known as "McNasty" in high school has erupted in foul-languaged tirades at political foes and congressional colleagues more-or-less throughout his career, and his quickness to anger has been an issue on the presidential campaign trail as evidence of his fury has surfaced.

As Schecter notes, McCain's rage is not limited to the political spectrum, and even his family cannot be spared the brute force of his anger.

Schecter, who also blogs at The Agonist, said in an interview the anecdote is "an early example of his uncontrollable temper." In the book he outlines several other examples of McCain losing his cool and raises the question of how that would affect a McCain presidency.

What should voters make of this pattern? In February 2008 Tim Russert succinctly described McCain on MSNBC's Morning Joe. A devilish grin spread from ear to ear as Russert, no McCain hater, leaned forward and spoke in a whisper, "He likes to fight." Russert got it right. But the big question isn't whether McCain likes to fight: it's who, when, and how.

The exchange between McCain and his wife was not reported anywhere when it happened, Schecter said (a LexisNexis database search confirms this). In 1992, McCain's mention in the national media revolved mostly around his involvement in the Keating Five scandal, and only local reporters closely followed his re-election bid.

McCain is well known for his rapport with the national media covering his presidential bid (he's jokingly referred to the press as "my base"), but Schecter said this incident was buried not out of fealty to the Arizona senator. Rather, it was uneasiness about how to get such a coarse exchange into a family newspaper, and he didn't fault the local press for not covering the incident.

"Members of the media are squeamish covering stuff like this so they let it go," Schecter told RAW STORY in an interview Monday. "Back in '92, when people use naughty words, [reporters] don't know as much what to do with it."

Much has changed since then. President Bush's reference to a New York Times reporter as a "major league asshole" was reported in at least 47 newspapers during the 2000 campaign, when the off-color remark was overheard, according to a database search. And more than a dozen newspapers have reported Dick Cheney's recommendation that Sen. Patrick Leahy "fuck yourself."

McCain and his aides have brushed off suggestions that his temper could impede his ability to perform the sometimes-delicate tasks asked of a president. The candidate was asked about his legendary temper last week on "Fox News Sunday," where he cited his ability to work "across the aisle" while in the Senate.

"You can't scare people or intimidate them if you're going to reach agreement with your colleagues and your contemporaries And I've worked hard at that, and that's what the American people want," McCain said. " The second thing is if I lose my capacity for anger, then I shouldn't be president of the United States. ... When I see the waste and corruption in Washington, I get angry."

McCain's campaign did not return a call from RAW STORY seeking comment Monday morning.

Schecter says McCain's anger is much more than a passion for the issues. One can only imagine what would happen if McCain were to try to squeeze that temper into the tight confines of diplomacy.

"The public certainly has to know what this guy might do as president," Schecter says. Examples like the ones in his book "should worry people, quite frankly."

created by charlatan on Apr 12, 2008 at 03:27:31 pm     Comments: 18

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I meant to highlight this:

In his 1992 Senate bid, McCain was joined on the campaign trail by his wife, Cindy, as well as campaign aide Doug Cole and consultant Wes Gullett. At one point, Cindy playfully twirled McCain's hair and said, "You're getting a little thin up there." McCain's face reddened, and he responded, "At least I don't plaster on the makeup like a trollop, you cunt."

posted by charlatan on Apr 12, 2008 at 03:29:00 pm     #



I've never been called the 'c' word in my life (at least not that I know of) - if my husband called me this, even joking - I'd have been gone a long time ago.

posted by starling02 on Apr 12, 2008 at 04:05:43 pm     #



While I reserve judgment o this specific event, I agree that many members of the media can be reluctant to report all of the truth.

Any reporter who wrote of such exchanges would quickly be banished to exile, as politicans, celebrities, and CEOs would be afraid to even be seen near such a person, while getting access to such high-profile people can make or break a career.

Besides, we all know a certain white-haired Midwestern Rust Belt mayor with a short fuse, and his outbursts are legendary. Yet at what point is this news any more? The C-man has dropped so many F-bombs that the shock value is gone in reporting such a story. I remember witing on him for an interview once, listening to five minutes of the saltiest, most abusive language you can imagine being directed at a campaign official, and then turning to me with a big smile and a handshake: "And how are YOU, young man? Good to see you!"

Surreal scene, but I never wrote about it until now.

Still, I also agree that calling any woman a c--t is pretty low, but especially one's wife. Maybe it's no wonder Cindy McCain was eating painkillers and sedatives like Pez candy.

posted by historymike on Apr 12, 2008 at 04:23:04 pm     #



Yeah, we need more great leaders of fine moral caliber like the Clintons and the Kennedys.

posted by Darkseid on Apr 12, 2008 at 05:46:12 pm     #



LMAO! This is news? I have no intention or desire to vote for this man, but if people base their vote on this type of crap maybe they are the c*@#s.

posted by Ryan on Apr 12, 2008 at 06:08:58 pm     #



Haha, you never miss an opportunity, do you Charlatan? :)

Anyhow, I have to agree with Ryan. I've seen and heard plenty of comments about the Rev Wright issue and Barack's recent small town sentiment not being newsworthy. I wonder what those same folks say about this.

posted by Postal on Apr 12, 2008 at 08:23:33 pm     #



Treat the ones you love shit.

Treat the people you don't care about like __________.

posted by charlatan on Apr 12, 2008 at 09:48:03 pm     #



And the Carty thing. It's an ACT. Like that guy in lethal weapon.

The guy who's not Danny Glover Boulevard.

I think he's a bright dude, but it seriously is all fo' sho'.

Drama and politics go hand in hand. Fake drama, let me correct this.

I respect everyone's opinion unless the disagree, then I take it personally. :):)

posted by charlatan on Apr 12, 2008 at 09:56:49 pm     #



Maybe McCain calls 'em like he sees 'em?

posted by CharlieA-Z on Apr 12, 2008 at 11:35:11 pm     #



Nice, he was just straight shooting.

posted by charlatan on Apr 13, 2008 at 11:03:11 pm     #



If a guy says that to his wife, what must he think about women in general?

posted by jmleong on Apr 14, 2008 at 12:01:15 pm     #



If I said that to my wife, it would have been the last thing I said...

posted by SensorG on Apr 14, 2008 at 09:43:01 pm     #



If somebody treats his wife this way publicly, no less - then it's safe to assume, he treats her worse in private. And it's also probably safe to assume, that if he can treat his wife this way, he'd treat others far worse. People tend to behave better in public - often treating strangers with more courtesy then they do family members. So I think it speaks volumes about them when they abuse somebody they care about in public.

I always wondered about Carty & Amy - he's so explosive in public, so I wonder what he's like to her at home when he's pissed of. I do a knee-jerk assumption that he's just, or more abusive to his wife.

posted by starling02 on Apr 15, 2008 at 04:58:41 pm     #



We'll never know, once she helped him get back in office, Sweet Amy disappeared once again.

posted by Darkseid on Apr 15, 2008 at 11:52:20 pm     #



If you know a toledo police officer who's been on the force for any lentgh of time, ask him. If you're tight enough friends that he trusts you, maybe he'll tell you about the times the cops have been called to Casa de Finkbeiner for domestic disturbance.

You wont find any paperwork on these instances tho.

posted by billy on Apr 16, 2008 at 08:21:16 am     #



Jack Ford has abused his wives, also, from what I've heard. He also got caught higher than a kite driving around nude, but it got covered up.

posted by Darkseid on Apr 16, 2008 at 09:28:32 am     #



I actually heard he was nude up on the High Level Bridge threatening suicide. Got pulled off when rescue crews were mistakenly told it was a stalled UPS truck in danger of going over the edge...

posted by billy on Apr 16, 2008 at 12:26:28 pm     #



Well, sounds like he was nude, wherever he was LOL

posted by Darkseid on Apr 16, 2008 at 05:39:06 pm     #